BDSM Organizations
Society of Janus - Social and educational organization in San Francisco - open to all.
The Exiles - Social and educational organization in San Francisco - for women only.
The 15 Association - Social organization in San Francisco - for gay men only.

Online Resources and Forums
Kink Aware Professionals - Referral list of kink-friendly physicians and other medical professionals.
Society for Human Sexuality - Links to straight and GLBT resources, organizations, and city guides, both kinky and vanilla.
Femme Domme - BDSM forum and message boards.
Max Fisch - Pro-domme advertising links and message boards.

Books
BDSM:
– Anders, The Lazy Crossdresser
– Haberman, Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment
– Miller and Devon, Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns
– Warren, The Loving Dominant

Gender, Sexuality, Relationships, and Health:
– Bornstein, My Gender Workbook
– Brame, Brame, and Jacobs, Different Loving
– Easton and Liszt, The Ethical Slut
– Kay, Male Lust: Pleasure, Power, and Transformation
– Moser, Health Care Without Shame

Sex Work:
– Christina, Paying for it: A Guide by Sex Workers for Their Clients (Disregard the chapter on professional submission--it is cringingly miseducative.)
– Delacoste and Alexander, Sex Work: Writings by Women in the Sex Industry
– Nagle, Whores and other Feminists

Erotica:
– Kondom, Bondage Fairies (erotic comics)
– Califia, Macho Sluts
– Carter, The Bloody Chamber and other Stories (really almost anything by Angela Carter)
– Bataille, The Story of the Eye

Retail Outlets
Dark Garden - High-quality, custom corsetry.
Girdle Bound - New foundation garments made from vintage patterns.
Mr. S Leathers and Fetters - Wide array of quality SM toys and equipment.
Madame S - Sister company of Mr. S, offers a wonderful selection of latex fetish wear.
Good Vibrations - Friendly, cooperatively-owned retail company offering sex products, books, and videos. Also holds BDSM classes in the Bay Area.

Colleagues
Morgana Maye (San Francisco)
My partner in crime and my mentor. A highly skilled and ethical player and educator who has teaching BDSM for the past decade.

Madame Gina Grant (San Francisco)
A skilled sadist with a wicked sense of humor.

Miss Lucinda Archer (San Francisco)
An experienced switch, skilled in domestic role plays as well as seductive sadism.

Mistress Sarai (Los Angeles)
A sadist and sensation player with a talent for role play and humiliation.

Other Links
Eros Guide
DDI Magazine
Dickie Virgin